So something just happened on a lovely day of brunching and coffee, I’ve had a couple of days of not being in cage or being plugged. Sleep pattern got screwed this week and we’ve got a 4 day weekend thanks to the Queen. But basically did my usual “maintenance enema” the other day and haven’t plugged or cage since. We went out around 1ish to have some brunch and coffee while doing a very quick fire check out of a local market.
Now we’ve been home for a while and are leaving the dog walk till a bit later so that it’ll be a bit cooler when we do, I’ve just replugged & caged after which informed Miss with a new term of phrase for me “I’m back to my natural state, caged & plugged Miss”. Its probably the first time I’ve thought of it this way but it does feel more natural to be caged and plugged, and as its a “low maintenance” on her part bit of our kink I can’t believe its the first time I’ve thought of it that way but its so true.