Miss and I have planned to have Easter Sunday & Bank Holiday Monday all to ourselves with minimal plans.
So far I’ve showered and shaved, had Miss tease me till the point of leaking and not long after had Miss request the wand and me on my knees filling my ass whilst she played again to me leaking. I’ll continue to update this post with any more of our goings on over the 2 days (I am excited and love that we have this time!).
Picture that Miss took during the above:-
So Wednesday we go round to a friend’s house, tonight Miss has decided to add a bit of spice by plugging me before we leave the house. She’s not mentioned the cage but my ass is 100% going to be filled for an evening at our friends. Surrounded by people and constantly having my mind dragged back to the fact I’m hers to do with as she pleases.
I’ve always had fantasies of these kind of scenarios, where you’re constantly wondering if any of them know etc.
One of my biggest fantasies lately has revolved around having to drive either dressed in women’s clothing or just in panties whilst plugged and caged maybe having to stop somewhere and do a lap of the car or walk a distance . Anyway small update as it is, I’m very happy with how things are going ATM and we’re not that far from the wedding now too xD
Feel free to comment as always and I’ll always try to respond quickly.
I’ve not been locked for a little while now, but I’ve not orgasmed/cum/edged/ruined. Now this for most guys would be fine, but ever since I had testicular torsion I suffer from very bad pains during these times. I’m trying to work through them as I can’t name a cause for it at all and it bugs me that this prevents me from doing certain things (real tease and denial for any real length of time for one!) so I’m going to try grinning and bearing it out and seeing what happens. It is painful, at times even to walk or move around and the testicles are extremely sensitive but I refuse to let it beat me.
Anyone with any advice etc. it would be greatly appreciated.
All day yesterday despite being unlocked I’ve not cum since last allowed and was feeling the effects HARD. I’ve basically been constantly horny, I sent a few messages to Miss to suggest she’d be able to make me do anything (which is true most of the time anyway but lets be honest when horny it strikes harder!).
Miss then had me go out to the car to retrieve the cage wearing nothing but shoes and the pretty pink lacey thong I was wearing. My god that turned me on more than it should, the humiliation underlying the risk of being caught. I was then allowed to remove the thong when I got in (it was clear it wasn’t holding much in) and Miss allowed me to lick her for a while. I was then told to go get the wand for her and a toy for me, I brought back the long big glass dildo, lube and wand. Miss allowed me back on the couch where she just spread her legs and started playing whilst telling me to use the toy on myself. A lot of moaning and groaning later (from both of us) and a lot of looking at Miss beautiful perfect pussy she’d cum and she started to hold the wand against her cock. Miss allowed me to cum which was a relief and we both lay on the couch for a while after. Very fun night and I do love the humiliation Miss put me through.
Over the weekend I’d agreed to do several chores which ultimately I forgot about completely, yesterday I messaged Miss to request lock up and plugging if it was her wish (I have a bad history of tum issues so plugging isn’t something Miss forces upon me). She accepted this request with a caveat that I would also be receiving 20 punishment spanks due to me having not done the tasks. Then I would be plugged & caged (this happened before the spanking) which I was grateful for as the spanks did definitely have the extra sting of a punishment spanking.
Once this was all done I proceeded to carry out several of the tasks (annoyingly the hoover got clogged during so took longer than I’d initially planned, pesky hoovers). But Miss was happy with me having got on to do them hastily in response. I think she was happy that there was no complaint about any of her plan at all I just took it as she told me.
This evening, still caged I shall be presenting Miss once again with lube and a plug (she allows me to choose) as well as having some play time a little later all focused on her.
As always please feel free to message or comment.
I spent most of today working on various bits and bobs, which altogether felt rather satisfying. Especially since upon waking up I listened to Miss having her usual morning shower (I evening shower and actually did so caged last night). When Miss came back through to the bedroom I was told to slide down the bed, Miss had decided I could give her a good start to her day with my tongue so of course I licked whilst she mounted my face. Very good way to start a day covered in some of Miss’ juices.
During the day the cage was strained several times whilst I couldn’t help but think of Miss, it also occasionally decides to all the contents to rub a little so some moving around can be required as its not wholly pleasant when it does. After the long work day we went to a local supermarket got food for a decent amount of nights (Miss is making me cook “Dressed in something pretty” this evening). When we got home I put away everything we had gotten then was taken to the bed room and told to stand at the side of the bed, Miss had the wand in hand and I wasn’t sure if it was for her or for me. Turned out Miss wanted to use it on my incarcerated cock.
After a few minutes of intense vibrations of metal, cock and a lot of straining. Miss once again told me to lie down on my back. She mounted my face, underwear still in place with a nice wet patch right at my nose (and can I tell you she always smells just as sweet as she tastes…) after a few moments and her once again putting the wand on the cage, she said I could move them to the side which I immediately did so I could get a taste of her. She ground herself against my tongue while bringing me to orgasm in the cage after which she didn’t take long to reach her own. Good day was had by all xD
Yesterday evening Miss had me use the wand and a dildo on her whilst I stayed locked, it was amazing watching her ass bounce whilst I fucked her with the dildo and held the wand in place. I was so deep in sub space during it I almost stalled when she asked me to talk to her whilst I was doing it. After my momentary pause I proceeded to start telling her how much I’m her toy and she can have me do as she wants. After Miss had cum several times from this we just lay and cuddled for a bit.
Today though my mind has practically permanently been in a kind of muted sub mode, I’ve constantly had my thoughts drifting back to Miss, either from the concert and her rubbing against me. Or to last night, or even just us on the couch together. Making it a little difficult to concentrate on work but not in a bad way at all (made for a much more interesting work day). This evening we’re off out to a friends house, we were originally going to stay in but the friend eventually let us know that tonight was still on, its nothing kinky etc. but should be fun. Of course the final say on whether we went or not was Miss’ though and I’m due to pick her up in an hour or so.
The other day Miss and I were due to go to a gig, prior to leaving for the drive over I locked without first talking to Miss
My intention was to kick start our kinky side and also hand over control to her once more as we’ve not really done anything in an FLR sense in some time. I was hoping to kind of point it out that I was handing control over to her completely. Unfortunately and unintentionally it came across that I was doing it for me and it was about me, so I completely missed the mark. Miss did take it well though and I suppose I’m writing this to kind of explain my intentions as well as how I’ve felt since.
So onto the since, at the gig Miss was stood in front of me and throughout and due to both of our movements I on a number of occasions couldn’t help but close my eyes and enjoy Miss amazing ass rubbing against my now caged cock, genuinely slightly say dreamy each time she rubbed against me. First night I was awoken by morning glory, but thankfully due to a late night drive I got back to sleep, rest of the day I did housework with the ever present reminder of the cage. Today thus far I’ve strained against the cage a few times (mostly thinking of Miss, especially as she’s said we’re 100% having some time for her later) but no real discomfort.
I might add to this post later but as ever please ask any questions you may have in the comments, messages etc.
Miss and I have been going through a quiet patch as I hinted to in my previous post, so I’ve not had much news to post about but I’m trying to get better so we can get back onto track.
In an effort to have something to post about I did some googling and found the following:-http://bestslavetraining.com/training-techniques/slave_training_questionnaire/
figuring I’d have a go doing another post with me answering the questions so here goes, I know its as a “Application to submit” but as its fairly detailed if anyone has anything else they’d like answered from my opinion or mind as always please feel free to ask.
Part One of slave training questionnaire: General overview and Information
A. How may years of experience do you have? 14 years or so
B. How long have you known of your interest in bdsm? 16 years
C. What is your sexual orientation? Bisexual
D. What kind of relationship are you presently able to provide to a Miss? Live in with Miss
E. Main interest? Both psychosexual & mental as well as sensual and physical
F. Are you… (rate each from 1=lowest to 10=highest) if explanation is necessary do so.
G. Your level of interest in bondage:
1. Total helplessness – Yes
2. Light bondage – Yes
H. Pain (what you are, or what you’re looking for)
1. Pain slut – At times
2. Whipping, caning, paddling – Yes
Part two of slave training questionnaire: Detailed questions
All answers are expected to elaborate on the subject matter in question. No one (1) word answers are to be given. All answers shall be a minimum of one full sentence.
1. i seek and require the guidance of a Miss to….?
(What being a slave is going to do for you?)
Being a slave to Miss will allow me to grow in a way I’ve always desired, being able to provide service to her in any way she wishes is my ultimate goal and being able to eventually move to being able to predict her wishes. Sexually I believe I already have a handle on this but its in other areas of our life I aspire to reach this goal.
2. i seek and require the guidance of a Miss because….?
(Why do you have the need for a Miss?)
Outside of my social and work lives in which I’m a fairly dominant character I need the release of being submissive, I’m a fairly socially anxious person despite appearances and tend to overthink things in these areas of my life. When outside of that the submissive nature I have allows me to escape the pressures I feel in other areas.
3. How important is the fulfillment of these needs to you?
The fulfillment of these actually allows me to not turn in on myself so they can be quite critical to me.
4. i seek to provide my Miss with….?
(psychologically, emotionally, and sexually.)
The emotional and psychological support she needs to succeed in whatever she wants, as well as sexually satisfy her in any way she needs.
5. my concept/definition of ‘submission’ is….?
To be there for the dominant in any way they need, seeking to satisfy them in any way
6. my concept/definition of ‘servitude’ is….?
To be available for the dominant whenever they require
7. my concept/definition of “commitment’ is….?
To be fully focused on the health (physical & emotional) of myself and of Miss so that I’m available as much as is possible
8. my favorite sexual fantasy is….?
To have Miss fully satisfied, physically exhausted and with me having either been left ruined or to have not cum at all. I do have a sissy side and also love humiliation so Miss verbally abusing me during this and me being dressed as a sissy would add to this but the base of her being completely satisfied is my primary fantasy..
9. Describe the following areas that you have endured and how you would like your limits expanded within each situation.
a. Nipple torture – Only really experienced nipple clamps although I did enjoy them
b. Ass play – I love my ass being teased and played with, I do want to explore using bigger toys though with training.
c. Bondage scenes – I have been tied by Miss a number of times and love the power it gives her over me.
d. Whipping scenes – I love to be spanked, I’ve not experienced a whip to date but wouldn’t be against the use of one if it was something Miss wanted.
10. Describe one area not mentioned you have endured and how you would like your limits of such expanded.
Sissy play and dress up is something I’d like to explore more, I don’t currently know how exactly I would react to being fully dressed as a sissy but am curious to try.
11. In what area(s) do you require concentrated training? Wherever Miss feels I need.
12. Are you willing to accept the idea of being trained as the property of your Miss? Yes
13. Describe how you will serve your Miss in her absence. –
Domestic servitude is something I am able to offer, as well as being able to assist in other ways (finding art assignments for her to complete as she is attempting to draw more for instance)
14. The following two questions deal with your current and initial preferences. These two questions may be answered with either a “Yes, Sir!” or a “No, Sir!” as long as you elaborate upon them with a minimum of one full sentence:
Do you prefer your Miss to be:
Rough, tough, and stubborn? Yes, Miss!
Firm, stern, yet considerate? Yes, Miss!
Something else? What? No, Miss!
Do you prefer to:
· be commanded and ordered about? Yes, Miss!
· be given a set rules to obey? No, Miss
· know the reason for some commands/orders? No, Miss!
· have no say in your training and use? No, Miss!
· have input in your training and use? Yes, Miss!
15) Tell me of your sexual energy ?
f) I like sex, however I like it in my relationship, outside of a relationship I can live without it.
16. Comments. (on any area(s) not covered by the questionnaire that you feel are relevant in your case that have not been addressed.)
17. What are your known Hardlimits that you would like to maintain? Scat, animals and illegal activities
This is a detailed part of the slave training questionnaire:
Prepare a detailed description of your former training. Start at the beginning and take it Miss by Miss.
In terms of previous training its always been a lot more “sporadic play” than training.
Describe the type of training you received and types of scenes you had.
In terms of scenes, I’ve experienced some chastity, spanking, bondage and being used as furniture
Explain any problems with the relationships.
All previous relationships as I say the play was sporadic at best (this is an understatement with relationships lasting years and having a hand full of play sessions)
How long you were trained and what the major thing you learned from each.
What you liked and did not like about previous training experiences.
No training as such
Describe how your were rewarded and punished.
In addition describe any experience you have had as a switch.
In relationships early on I was more of a switch being able to easily switch between being submissive and dominant, controlling the partner at the time fully sexually.
Part Three of slave training questionnaire: Experience Level and Interests
your potential Miss does not necessarily engage in any of the following-described conduct. However, it is essential that you provide scrupulously accurate answers so I can realistically assess your qualifications as well as whether I need to address other issues in your personality besides your desire to serve.
For each item, you need to provide two answers:
For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity. For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5 (“?” means you don’t understand what the item is attempting to describe. NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
NO means basically a hard limit and that you have absolutely no desire to do this.
0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit the Miss to do it if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a “soft limit”).
1 means you don’t want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn’t object if it was asked of you.
2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis.
4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as possible.
Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Miss to know in the margin to the right.
BDSM check LIST
Abrasion : NO 3
Anal sex (top) : YES 3
Anal sex (bottom) : YES 5
If so, ever without condoms?: Yes
Anal plugs (small) : YES4
Anal plugs (large) : YES 4
Anal plug (public, under clothes): YES 4
Animal roles : NO 2
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) : NO 2
Asphyxiation : YES 3
Ass licking (giving): YES 5
Ass licking (receiving): YES 5
Bathroom use control : NO
Beating (soft) : YES 3
Beating (hard) : YES 3
Bestiality (k9): NO NO
Bestiality -other: NO NO
Blindfolds : YES 4
Being bitten : YES 4
Ben wa balls or kegel balls: NO 2
if yes how long did you wear?
Breath control : YES 3
Branding : NO 2
Boot worship : NO 3
Bondage (light) : YES 4
Bondage (heavy) : YES 4
Bondage (multi-day) : NO 2
Bondage (public, under clothing) : NO 4
Brown showers (scat) : NO NO
Cages (locked inside of) : NO 4
Caning : NO 3
Catheterization : NO 2
Cattle prod or stun gun (electrical toy) : NO 2
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) : NO 3
Chains : NO NO
Chastity belts : YES 5
Clothespins : YES 4
if you have had them used where?: BALLS, COCK, NIPPLES, LIPS
Cock sucking: YES 3
Do you swallow?: N/A
Collars (worn in private) :NO 4
Collars (worn in public) : NO 3
Cuffs (leather) : NO 3
Cuffs (metal) : NO 2
Diapers (wearing) : NO NO
Denied privacy: NO 4
describe the denial:
Douches as part of play: NO 3
Double Penetration (anal and cunt): N/A
Dildos : YES 5
Eating Cunt: YES 5
Electricity : NO 3
Enemas (for cleansing) : YES 4
Enemas (retention/punishment) : NO 2
Enforced chastity : YES 5
Erotic dance (for audience): NO 2
Erotic dance (private) : NO 3
Examinations (physical) : NO 5
Exercise (forced/required) : NO 2
Exhibitionism : NO 5
Eye contact restrictions : NO NO
Face slapping :NO 5
Fantasy rape : NO 5
Fear (being scared) : NO NO
Fisting (anal) : NO 3
Flame (fire play) play : NO 2
Foot worship : NO 3
Forced masturbation : NO 4
Forced nudity (private) : YES 4
Forced nudity (around others) : NO 3
Forced servitude : NO 5
Full head hoods : NO 2
Gags (cloth) : NO 2
Gags (inflatable) : NO NO
Gags (phallic) : YES 5
Gags (rubber) : NO 2
Gags (tape) : NO 3
Gas masks : NO NO
Given away to another Miss (temp) : NO NO
Servicing another Miss upon command: NO 2
Golden showers : YES 2
Hairbrush spankings : NO 3
Hair pulling : NO NO
Hand jobs (giving) : YES 5
Harnessing (leather and or rope) : YES 3
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) : NO 4
Hoods : NO 2
Hot Creams (Ben-Gay) on genitals: NO 3
Hot oils (on genitals) : NO 3
Hot waxing : NO 4
Housework (doing) : YES 4
Human puppy dog : NO 2
Humiliation : YES 5
Ice cubes : YES 3
If you have experienced, where?: (nips, ass) Nipples, cock
Immobilization : YES 3
If so, how? Tied with rope
Interrogations : NO 2
Lactation training: N/A
Lactation (miking tits): N/A
if you have explain procedure:
Leather clothing : NO 2
Leather restraints : NO 2
Licking (non-sexual) : NO 3
Lingerie (wearing) : YES 5
Manacles & Irons : NO 2
Massage (giving) : YES 5
Massage (receiving) : YES 5
Medical scenes : NO 2
Modeling for erotic photos : YES 5
Photographing training sessions with your Miss: NO 5
Mouth bits : NO 2
Multi-partners: NO 1
Mummification : NO 2
Needle Play: NO 2
Nipple clamps : YES 5
Nipple rings (piercing): NO 4
Nipple play/”torture” : NO 4
if a type not listed then explain:
Nipple weights : NO 4
Obeying verbal commands such as “kneel”, “stand” or “Present.” YES 5
Oral/anal play (rimming): YES 5
Over-the-knee spanking : NO 4
Orgasm denial : YES 5
Orgasm control : YES 5
Outdoor scenes : NO 4
Outdoor sex : YES 4
Pain (severe) : NO 4
Pain (mild) : NO 4
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): NO 2
Piercing (permanent) : YES 3
Prison scenes : NO 2
Punching: NO 2
if yes to punching, explain
Punishment Scene : YES 5
if yes, describe the scene play – Spanked by Miss
Pussy torture: N/A
Restrictive rules on behavior : NO 2
Rubber/latex clothing : NO 2
Rope body harness : YES 4
Role playing: NO 4
Saran wrapping : NO 2
Sensory deprivation : NO 2
Serving as ashtray : NO 1
Serving as furniture : NO 4
Serving as a maid : NO 4
Serving as toilet (urine) : NO 2
Serving orally (sexual) : YES 5
Serving other Miss’ (supervised) : NO 2
Serving other Miss’ (unsupervised): NO NO
Serving others as sex slave: NO NO
Shaving (body hair) : YES 5
Shaving (head hair) : NO NO
Slave positions training: NO 2
Sleep deprivation : NO NO
Spandex clothing : NO 2
Spanking : YES 5
Speech restrictions (when, what) : NO 1
Spitting : NO 3
Spreader bars : YES 5
Stocks : NO 3
Straight jackets : NO 2
Strapping (full body beating) : NO 3
Strap-on dildo receiving: YES 5
Strap-on dildo giving: YES 5
Suspension (upright) : NO 3
Suspension (inverted) : NO 3
Suspension (horizontal) : NO 3
Supplying new partners for Miss: NO NO
Swallowing semen : YES 4
Swallowing urine: yours?; others? NO 2
Swapping (with one other couple) : NO NO
Tattoos: YES 4
TENS Unit (electrical toy) : NO 3
Tickling : NO 2
Uniforms : NO 2
Verbal humiliation : YES 5
Vibrator on genitals : YES 5
Violet Wand (electrical toy) : NO 4
Voyeurism (watching others) : NO NO
Video (watching others) : YES 4
Video (recordings of you) : YES 5
Waxing (hair removal) : YES 5
Whipping : NO 3
Wooden paddles : YES 5
Wrestling : NO 3
What you think is your best physical feature: My eyes
What you think is your worst physical feature: My tummy
Do you have problems controlling your temper: Occasionally
Do you have any tattoos or piercing? Tattoo on my arm
What has been your most intense scene involving SM/BD? Probably when Miss dressed me up and took pictures, then tied me up and used me.
Part Four of slave training questionnaire: The slave’s Background
Do you smoke? Yes
Do you drink? Practically never
Do you use drugs? No
Have you been diagnosed with mental problems? No
Do you have any disabilities (visible or invisible)? No
Do you wear contact lenses? No
Do you have any special dietary needs or restrictions? No
Are you allergic to dogs, cats, or other? No
Do you have any sexually transmitted diseases? No
Are you subject to any form of loss of consciences or seizures? No
Do you have panic attacks or phobias? No
Do you now or have you suffered from depression? Occasionally
What was your last illness that resulted in hopistalization and when? Testicular torsion
List you sex toys below and tell me the ones used most often. Dildos (many), anal plugs (many), wand vibrators, strapons, panties, ropes, restraints, dildo gag, gags and spreader bars.
Describe your abilities in domestic service such as cooking, cleaning, General House work.
Cooking savoury and deserts, cleaning, handy work (DIY etc.)
Describe your abilities at
Massage – Reasonable
Dancing – Not great
Computer skills – Expert (its my job)
Bookkeeping – Not great
Financial record keeping – Not great
Current martial status: Soon to be married to Miss
Have you been married before: if yes, very short summary of details: Yes, divorced 2018.
Have you ever been unfaithful to your lover or Miss? No
Is there any reason why you would not be able to commit 100%? None what so ever, Miss is my life
Have you ever intentionally made your sex partner or Miss mad? Never intentionally
Circumstances, frequency and preference:
What is the most you have ever cum in a 24 hour time period? Describe circumstances. 16 times in one day, with Miss
How often do you masturbate and what methods do you use?
Infrequently, if we’re not actively taking part in the BDSM aspect of our relationship and only as Miss wants when active
Do you freely admit when you have done something wrong and are you prepared
for the punishment? Yes
Describe: If I have done something wrong I will openly admit it and accept the punishment Miss wishes.
First update in too long