Miss and I have been going through a quiet patch as I hinted to in my previous post, so I’ve not had much news to post about but I’m trying to get better so we can get back onto track.
In an effort to have something to post about I did some googling and found the following:-http://bestslavetraining.com/training-techniques/slave_training_questionnaire/
figuring I’d have a go doing another post with me answering the questions so here goes, I know its as a “Application to submit” but as its fairly detailed if anyone has anything else they’d like answered from my opinion or mind as always please feel free to ask.
Part One of slave training questionnaire: General overview and Information
A. How may years of experience do you have? 14 years or so
B. How long have you known of your interest in bdsm? 16 years
C. What is your sexual orientation? Bisexual
D. What kind of relationship are you presently able to provide to a Miss? Live in with Miss
E. Main interest? Both psychosexual & mental as well as sensual and physical
F. Are you… (rate each from 1=lowest to 10=highest) if explanation is necessary do so.
G. Your level of interest in bondage:
1. Total helplessness – Yes
2. Light bondage – Yes
H. Pain (what you are, or what you’re looking for)
1. Pain slut – At times
2. Whipping, caning, paddling – Yes
Part two of slave training questionnaire: Detailed questions
All answers are expected to elaborate on the subject matter in question. No one (1) word answers are to be given. All answers shall be a minimum of one full sentence.
1. i seek and require the guidance of a Miss to….?
(What being a slave is going to do for you?)
Being a slave to Miss will allow me to grow in a way I’ve always desired, being able to provide service to her in any way she wishes is my ultimate goal and being able to eventually move to being able to predict her wishes. Sexually I believe I already have a handle on this but its in other areas of our life I aspire to reach this goal.
2. i seek and require the guidance of a Miss because….?
(Why do you have the need for a Miss?)
Outside of my social and work lives in which I’m a fairly dominant character I need the release of being submissive, I’m a fairly socially anxious person despite appearances and tend to overthink things in these areas of my life. When outside of that the submissive nature I have allows me to escape the pressures I feel in other areas.
3. How important is the fulfillment of these needs to you?
The fulfillment of these actually allows me to not turn in on myself so they can be quite critical to me.
4. i seek to provide my Miss with….?
(psychologically, emotionally, and sexually.)
The emotional and psychological support she needs to succeed in whatever she wants, as well as sexually satisfy her in any way she needs.
5. my concept/definition of ‘submission’ is….?
To be there for the dominant in any way they need, seeking to satisfy them in any way
6. my concept/definition of ‘servitude’ is….?
To be available for the dominant whenever they require
7. my concept/definition of “commitment’ is….?
To be fully focused on the health (physical & emotional) of myself and of Miss so that I’m available as much as is possible
8. my favorite sexual fantasy is….?
To have Miss fully satisfied, physically exhausted and with me having either been left ruined or to have not cum at all. I do have a sissy side and also love humiliation so Miss verbally abusing me during this and me being dressed as a sissy would add to this but the base of her being completely satisfied is my primary fantasy..
9. Describe the following areas that you have endured and how you would like your limits expanded within each situation.
a. Nipple torture – Only really experienced nipple clamps although I did enjoy them
b. Ass play – I love my ass being teased and played with, I do want to explore using bigger toys though with training.
c. Bondage scenes – I have been tied by Miss a number of times and love the power it gives her over me.
d. Whipping scenes – I love to be spanked, I’ve not experienced a whip to date but wouldn’t be against the use of one if it was something Miss wanted.
10. Describe one area not mentioned you have endured and how you would like your limits of such expanded.
Sissy play and dress up is something I’d like to explore more, I don’t currently know how exactly I would react to being fully dressed as a sissy but am curious to try.
11. In what area(s) do you require concentrated training? Wherever Miss feels I need.
12. Are you willing to accept the idea of being trained as the property of your Miss? Yes
13. Describe how you will serve your Miss in her absence. –
Domestic servitude is something I am able to offer, as well as being able to assist in other ways (finding art assignments for her to complete as she is attempting to draw more for instance)
14. The following two questions deal with your current and initial preferences. These two questions may be answered with either a “Yes, Sir!” or a “No, Sir!” as long as you elaborate upon them with a minimum of one full sentence:
Do you prefer your Miss to be:
Rough, tough, and stubborn? Yes, Miss!
Firm, stern, yet considerate? Yes, Miss!
Something else? What? No, Miss!
Do you prefer to:
· be commanded and ordered about? Yes, Miss!
· be given a set rules to obey? No, Miss
· know the reason for some commands/orders? No, Miss!
· have no say in your training and use? No, Miss!
· have input in your training and use? Yes, Miss!
15) Tell me of your sexual energy ?
f) I like sex, however I like it in my relationship, outside of a relationship I can live without it.
16. Comments. (on any area(s) not covered by the questionnaire that you feel are relevant in your case that have not been addressed.)
17. What are your known Hardlimits that you would like to maintain? Scat, animals and illegal activities
This is a detailed part of the slave training questionnaire:
Prepare a detailed description of your former training. Start at the beginning and take it Miss by Miss.
In terms of previous training its always been a lot more “sporadic play” than training.
Describe the type of training you received and types of scenes you had.
In terms of scenes, I’ve experienced some chastity, spanking, bondage and being used as furniture
Explain any problems with the relationships.
All previous relationships as I say the play was sporadic at best (this is an understatement with relationships lasting years and having a hand full of play sessions)
How long you were trained and what the major thing you learned from each.
What you liked and did not like about previous training experiences.
No training as such
Describe how your were rewarded and punished.
In addition describe any experience you have had as a switch.
In relationships early on I was more of a switch being able to easily switch between being submissive and dominant, controlling the partner at the time fully sexually.
Part Three of slave training questionnaire: Experience Level and Interests
your potential Miss does not necessarily engage in any of the following-described conduct. However, it is essential that you provide scrupulously accurate answers so I can realistically assess your qualifications as well as whether I need to address other issues in your personality besides your desire to serve.
For each item, you need to provide two answers:
For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity. For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5 (“?” means you don’t understand what the item is attempting to describe. NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
NO means basically a hard limit and that you have absolutely no desire to do this.
0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit the Miss to do it if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a “soft limit”).
1 means you don’t want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn’t object if it was asked of you.
2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis.
4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as possible.
Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Miss to know in the margin to the right.
BDSM check LIST
Abrasion : NO 3
Anal sex (top) : YES 3
Anal sex (bottom) : YES 5
If so, ever without condoms?: Yes
Anal plugs (small) : YES4
Anal plugs (large) : YES 4
Anal plug (public, under clothes): YES 4
Animal roles : NO 2
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) : NO 2
Asphyxiation : YES 3
Ass licking (giving): YES 5
Ass licking (receiving): YES 5
Bathroom use control : NO
Beating (soft) : YES 3
Beating (hard) : YES 3
Bestiality (k9): NO NO
Bestiality -other: NO NO
Blindfolds : YES 4
Being bitten : YES 4
Ben wa balls or kegel balls: NO 2
if yes how long did you wear?
Breath control : YES 3
Branding : NO 2
Boot worship : NO 3
Bondage (light) : YES 4
Bondage (heavy) : YES 4
Bondage (multi-day) : NO 2
Bondage (public, under clothing) : NO 4
Brown showers (scat) : NO NO
Cages (locked inside of) : NO 4
Caning : NO 3
Catheterization : NO 2
Cattle prod or stun gun (electrical toy) : NO 2
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) : NO 3
Chains : NO NO
Chastity belts : YES 5
Clothespins : YES 4
if you have had them used where?: BALLS, COCK, NIPPLES, LIPS
Cock sucking: YES 3
Do you swallow?: N/A
Collars (worn in private) :NO 4
Collars (worn in public) : NO 3
Cuffs (leather) : NO 3
Cuffs (metal) : NO 2
Diapers (wearing) : NO NO
Denied privacy: NO 4
describe the denial:
Douches as part of play: NO 3
Double Penetration (anal and cunt): N/A
Dildos : YES 5
Eating Cunt: YES 5
Electricity : NO 3
Enemas (for cleansing) : YES 4
Enemas (retention/punishment) : NO 2
Enforced chastity : YES 5
Erotic dance (for audience): NO 2
Erotic dance (private) : NO 3
Examinations (physical) : NO 5
Exercise (forced/required) : NO 2
Exhibitionism : NO 5
Eye contact restrictions : NO NO
Face slapping :NO 5
Fantasy rape : NO 5
Fear (being scared) : NO NO
Fisting (anal) : NO 3
Flame (fire play) play : NO 2
Foot worship : NO 3
Forced masturbation : NO 4
Forced nudity (private) : YES 4
Forced nudity (around others) : NO 3
Forced servitude : NO 5
Full head hoods : NO 2
Gags (cloth) : NO 2
Gags (inflatable) : NO NO
Gags (phallic) : YES 5
Gags (rubber) : NO 2
Gags (tape) : NO 3
Gas masks : NO NO
Given away to another Miss (temp) : NO NO
Servicing another Miss upon command: NO 2
Golden showers : YES 2
Hairbrush spankings : NO 3
Hair pulling : NO NO
Hand jobs (giving) : YES 5
Harnessing (leather and or rope) : YES 3
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) : NO 4
Hoods : NO 2
Hot Creams (Ben-Gay) on genitals: NO 3
Hot oils (on genitals) : NO 3
Hot waxing : NO 4
Housework (doing) : YES 4
Human puppy dog : NO 2
Humiliation : YES 5
Ice cubes : YES 3
If you have experienced, where?: (nips, ass) Nipples, cock
Immobilization : YES 3
If so, how? Tied with rope
Interrogations : NO 2
Lactation training: N/A
Lactation (miking tits): N/A
if you have explain procedure:
Leather clothing : NO 2
Leather restraints : NO 2
Licking (non-sexual) : NO 3
Lingerie (wearing) : YES 5
Manacles & Irons : NO 2
Massage (giving) : YES 5
Massage (receiving) : YES 5
Medical scenes : NO 2
Modeling for erotic photos : YES 5
Photographing training sessions with your Miss: NO 5
Mouth bits : NO 2
Multi-partners: NO 1
Mummification : NO 2
Needle Play: NO 2
Nipple clamps : YES 5
Nipple rings (piercing): NO 4
Nipple play/”torture” : NO 4
if a type not listed then explain:
Nipple weights : NO 4
Obeying verbal commands such as “kneel”, “stand” or “Present.” YES 5
Oral/anal play (rimming): YES 5
Over-the-knee spanking : NO 4
Orgasm denial : YES 5
Orgasm control : YES 5
Outdoor scenes : NO 4
Outdoor sex : YES 4
Pain (severe) : NO 4
Pain (mild) : NO 4
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): NO 2
Piercing (permanent) : YES 3
Prison scenes : NO 2
Punching: NO 2
if yes to punching, explain
Punishment Scene : YES 5
if yes, describe the scene play – Spanked by Miss
Pussy torture: N/A
Restrictive rules on behavior : NO 2
Rubber/latex clothing : NO 2
Rope body harness : YES 4
Role playing: NO 4
Saran wrapping : NO 2
Sensory deprivation : NO 2
Serving as ashtray : NO 1
Serving as furniture : NO 4
Serving as a maid : NO 4
Serving as toilet (urine) : NO 2
Serving orally (sexual) : YES 5
Serving other Miss’ (supervised) : NO 2
Serving other Miss’ (unsupervised): NO NO
Serving others as sex slave: NO NO
Shaving (body hair) : YES 5
Shaving (head hair) : NO NO
Slave positions training: NO 2
Sleep deprivation : NO NO
Spandex clothing : NO 2
Spanking : YES 5
Speech restrictions (when, what) : NO 1
Spitting : NO 3
Spreader bars : YES 5
Stocks : NO 3
Straight jackets : NO 2
Strapping (full body beating) : NO 3
Strap-on dildo receiving: YES 5
Strap-on dildo giving: YES 5
Suspension (upright) : NO 3
Suspension (inverted) : NO 3
Suspension (horizontal) : NO 3
Supplying new partners for Miss: NO NO
Swallowing semen : YES 4
Swallowing urine: yours?; others? NO 2
Swapping (with one other couple) : NO NO
Tattoos: YES 4
TENS Unit (electrical toy) : NO 3
Tickling : NO 2
Uniforms : NO 2
Verbal humiliation : YES 5
Vibrator on genitals : YES 5
Violet Wand (electrical toy) : NO 4
Voyeurism (watching others) : NO NO
Video (watching others) : YES 4
Video (recordings of you) : YES 5
Waxing (hair removal) : YES 5
Whipping : NO 3
Wooden paddles : YES 5
Wrestling : NO 3
What you think is your best physical feature: My eyes
What you think is your worst physical feature: My tummy
Do you have problems controlling your temper: Occasionally
Do you have any tattoos or piercing? Tattoo on my arm
What has been your most intense scene involving SM/BD? Probably when Miss dressed me up and took pictures, then tied me up and used me.
Part Four of slave training questionnaire: The slave’s Background
Do you smoke? Yes
Do you drink? Practically never
Do you use drugs? No
Have you been diagnosed with mental problems? No
Do you have any disabilities (visible or invisible)? No
Do you wear contact lenses? No
Do you have any special dietary needs or restrictions? No
Are you allergic to dogs, cats, or other? No
Do you have any sexually transmitted diseases? No
Are you subject to any form of loss of consciences or seizures? No
Do you have panic attacks or phobias? No
Do you now or have you suffered from depression? Occasionally
What was your last illness that resulted in hopistalization and when? Testicular torsion
List you sex toys below and tell me the ones used most often. Dildos (many), anal plugs (many), wand vibrators, strapons, panties, ropes, restraints, dildo gag, gags and spreader bars.
Describe your abilities in domestic service such as cooking, cleaning, General House work.
Cooking savoury and deserts, cleaning, handy work (DIY etc.)
Describe your abilities at
Massage – Reasonable
Dancing – Not great
Computer skills – Expert (its my job)
Bookkeeping – Not great
Financial record keeping – Not great
Current martial status: Soon to be married to Miss
Have you been married before: if yes, very short summary of details: Yes, divorced 2018.
Have you ever been unfaithful to your lover or Miss? No
Is there any reason why you would not be able to commit 100%? None what so ever, Miss is my life
Have you ever intentionally made your sex partner or Miss mad? Never intentionally
Circumstances, frequency and preference:
What is the most you have ever cum in a 24 hour time period? Describe circumstances. 16 times in one day, with Miss
How often do you masturbate and what methods do you use?
Infrequently, if we’re not actively taking part in the BDSM aspect of our relationship and only as Miss wants when active
Do you freely admit when you have done something wrong and are you prepared
for the punishment? Yes
Describe: If I have done something wrong I will openly admit it and accept the punishment Miss wishes.
First update in too long
I was struggling for a new blog post idea, we’re really happy atm and have been doing bits and pieces of kink but nothing really to report majorly. So rather than just go silent all over again I thought I’d find a “kinky questionnaire” kinda thing and let everyone find out a little more about me.
1. What fetishes do you have? In the strickest terms I wouldn’t say I have any “fetishes”, I can still get off in a vanilla sense. However I do love to be teased, denied, humiliated, dressed up and controlled, I’m basically 0 – 60 in a second flat if you get those things involved.
2. What is your favorite fetish? I think I’d have to say my favourite of the above is being controlled easily, to be told what to do and punished for not complying or doing the job to Miss’ required level.
3. Have you indulged in all your fetishes? All those listed above yes to varying degrees.
4. What fetishes are you yet to experience? I think theres a lot I’ve not that I’m definitely interested and others that I’m not necessarily however would oblige if Miss’ wanted. Of things I’m interested in I think I would like more punishment and humiliation. They’re both things that really do get me going and drop me into sub space in seconds.
5. Are there any fetishes you don’t have yet, but may be interested in? Cum play is something that does really interest me. Making me eat my own, having it on my face, making me fuck a dildo I’ve cum on, all intrigue me a lot.
6. Have you experienced BDSM? Do you practice it? Yes and yes
7. Are you a top/dominant a bottom/submissive or a switch? Definitely submissive 100%, I can in some instances have a dominant side but its not something that comes completely naturally.
8. What is it about BDSM that you like? I love the loss of control to my actions, having someone have power over me to use me for their needs, amusement, wants or just generally because they want to use me.
9. Have you experienced being tied up or restrained? Yes, and I adore it. Depending on the position it can be tricky to stay that way but constant communication is key.
10. Do you enjoy long, extended teasing/edging sessions? Yes we’ve recently been doing a lot more in terms of chastity (and expect pictures in a future post) and Miss definitely has a good handle on teasing *blush*
12. What is the longest you’ve been teased/edged? After a term in chastity Miss had me edge whilst she played with herself with the wand. After a lot of edges (think it was about 11), Miss allowed me to fuck her during which I believe she would have allowed me to cum had I been able (I wasn’t!).
13. Do you enjoy tease and denial? Very very much
14. Do you like to be denied? I love when Miss denies me, although at times it can be frustrating it keeps me in a state of wanting to please her in any way.
15. Do you have a panty fetish? Much much much so, I have been wearing panties 24/7 for some time now, and love thongs and gstrings most.
16. Have you ever purchased panties from a woman online? Never
17. Have you ever used panties to masturbate? (Stuffing/Wrapping/Etc.) No although I do sometimes wish Miss would gag me with her wet panties, or place them over my face.
18. Do you have a hosiery fetish? I do enjoy wearing stockings
19. Do you like pain? Wouldn’t say like, however when given punishment by Miss it does send me to sub space as the show of control is more than enough.
20. Do you like spanking/being spanked? Yes, I do sometimes request a spanking but it is something I wish Miss would administer more at her whim.
21. What do you prefer to use to spank? (Paddles/Hands/Whips/Etc) Paddles
22. Do you like to hit or be hit? How hard? To be hit, although I do also spank Miss sometimes (she does enjoy it too). As hard as Miss wishes.
23. Do you enjoy choking or being choked? How hard? Choked and enough to release the endorphins.
24. Do you like to bite or be bit? Both
25. Do you like to slap or be slapped? Something I’ve not experienced but would be interested in trying.
26. Do you like pulling or having your hair pulled? Pulling sometimes, I have a very sensitive scalp so don’t enjoy having it pulled.
27. What is your safe-word? Lights system is something Miss would understand. (Red, Orange, Green)
28. Have you ever done a cum-walk? (Walking in public with cum on your face/clothes/etc) I have not.
29. Would you do a cum-walk? Yes
30. Are you an exhibitionist? A little
31. What was your best exhibitionism experience? I’ve not done anything much beyond posting online, although I have previously been made to walk down a street with my trousers around my ankles.
32. Are you a cuckold? No
33. Are you a cuckqueen? No
34. Are you a bull? No
35. Would you like to watch your partner have sex with another person? No its a hard limit for me, not saying its not a fantasy but I know its not something I’d ever want to take out of the fantasy.
36. Would you like to have your partner watch you with another person? See above
37. Have you ever been cuckolded? Been cheated on plenty of times by previous partners, but doesn’t really count.
38. What is it about cuckolding that you like? Again the fantasy of it
39. Do you like to be humiliated? Yes!
40. Do you like to humiliate your partner? Only so far as dirty talk, although would do more if it were something Miss wanted to try.
41. Do you like to be humiliated while cuckolding or do you prefer a friendly environment. N/A
42. Do you like to be forced into crossdressing? Yes!
43. Have you ever fisted? No, although it is something I would try with training.
44. Are you a swinger? No
45. Have you ever been to a swingers club (with a partner)? No.
46. Would you ever go to a swingers club (with a partner)? No.
47. Would you ever participate in an orgy? (4 or more people) No.
48. Would you ever participate in a gang bang? (4 or more people) No.
49. Have you ever pegged/been pegged? Been and given, and LOVE IT!
50. Do you enjoy large strap on dildos or smaller? Working up to larger
51. Do you enjoy sucking or having your strap on sucked? Yes! Sucking on it for Miss is hot, and her sucking it whilst talking dirty (“Don’t you wish it was your cock I was sucking”)
52. Do you like incest? No
53. Have you ever experienced incest? No
54. Do you like face-sitting/smothering? Love it, when Miss is on my face I’m in such a happy place I can’t even put it into words.
55.Do you like weapon play? Never tried but again would
56. Do you like rape play? Yes
57. Have you experienced rape play? Only giving previously but am curious about recieving.
58. Do you like to be dominated? Like nothing else, every other kinky thing I enjoy stems from this one thing.
59. Have you ever been dominated online? No
60. Do you enjoy pet-play? Never really tried or shown much interest in it.
61. Do you like daddy dom/little play? Age play isn’t something I’ve had any interest in.
62. Do you like to be worshiped? Sometimes?
63. Do you like to worship? YES ALWAYS!
64. Do you like to be spit on or spit on your partner? Not something I’ve tried but would really like too, I think the humiliation of it would be hot.
65. Do you like to keep the slave play in the bedroom or carry it over to real life? I like to carry it over.
66. Have you ever been suspended while having sex? I have not but would like to try it. The sense of not being able to control my position and have it in Miss hands does turn me on.
67. Do you like to be told what to do? Yes, I love it when Miss tells me to do something. Its not the same as asking at all, but when she says “Do X now” it immediately gets my blood pumping to all the right places.
68. Do you enjoy giving/receiving JOIs? (Jerk Off Instructions) Not something we’ve practiced but I imagine I would.
68. Have you ever given or received a foot job? I have fucked feet before which was humiliating (NEVER going to happen again though Miss’ feet are far too ticklish *GRIN*)
69. Would you participate in a bukkake? We don’t play with others.
70. Do you enjoy brat play? Sometimes being a bit of a brat can be fun *giggle*
71. What is the strangest way anyone has made you cum? Until recently I’d have said the feet fucking, however last week Miss made me cum from anal (double dildo was fun!)
72. What is the strangest way you’ve made anyone cum? Sucking Miss’ nipples *CHESIRE CAT GRIN*
If theres anything you’d like me to answer in more depth or any questions that come to your mind don’t hesitate to comment or message me 🙂
After last night’s horrible time, and my foul mood. Miss thought it might be an idea to do something different, she wasn’t in the mood to be fucked with the strapon. So she played with the wand, whilst I was to edge and count out each and every edge. We did this for 20-30 minutes, with Miss doing an amazing job of holding back her own orgasm. I myself managed to edge 14 times, with the first 4-5 being very quick. The edges after that first lot got progressively longer to reach, I’d actually got a bruise and some sore tissue due to the erections in the cage so it actually got sore to edge after the tenth. After the 14th Miss told me to fuck her, cock and all. Obviously I quickly got ontop of her, she was still holding the wand in her clit and with Her cock fucking her She came a couple of times, I’d asked if I could cum myself which she answered yes too. This time though after the 14 edges, I found myself unable to reach the edge, nevermind actually cum. I’m glad that Miss had fun (and I did too), but damn one day cumming and missing out on an amazing blowjob, only to be followed by being allowed to cum and not be able.
As always question, comments etc are always welcome.
Yesterday evening after work, having decided earlier in the day that She would like another fucking with the strapon, and that I would be allowed a blowjob as a reward if I was able to not spurt during fucking her with the strapon. We warmed up with me licking and fingering Miss as well as her using the wand on her clit. I’d already caged Miss’ cock and put on the strapon harness, with the big thick 8″ cock. After she felt ready Miss told me to fuck her, despite being caged I still had a very messy ruined orgasm.
Now came the problem, not at all of any action of Miss. I’d been really looking forward to being in Miss mouth, to say she’s talented would be an understatement. I’ve never cum in her mouth even during the time whilst we were relatively vanilla (due to her personal dislike of cum due to previous relationships), but she is more than capable of getting me insanely worked up and close. So you can imagine how I felt about myself, I’d just managed to blow an amazing opportunity to have a lot pleasure all due to being incapable of stopping myself spurting. Miss wasn’t disappointed, or let down etc. but it put me in a very off mood for the rest of the evening. At myself but I can understand it wasn’t fun to be around me in that mood. I loved how much Miss enjoyed me fucking her, and the resulting orgasms. I really do, I just really need to work on being able to get over my own failure to control myself. For a long time it’s been something I’ve despised about myself (hated is far too mild a word for it). I don’t lack in size, I’m above average and I know what to do with it but I’m incapable of controlling when I spurt, whether it’s to full orgasm or ruined. It’s beyond a joke how quickly I need to stop in a stop start technique, I’ve tried cialis and over the counter sex shop pills, I’ve tried prescribed medical numbing cream.
Miss is going to assist me in edging sessions (blog post to follow after today’s experience). Anyway that’s a enough for now I think, if anyone wants to ask anything or has any suggestions please comment or contact me.
So we’ve been rather distracted with everything and not been playing much, life in the way and all that.
This weekend we had a night at a hotel, some fun times during the day and a hell of a lot of fun in the evening, all resulting in Miss seeming to have her mojo back.
Saturday we spent a good few hours going around the Manchester MCM, which was a lot of fun. Both of us enjoying seeing people’s immense efforts at their cosplays, meeting a ton of awesome artists as well as buying a ton of art for what shall nicely be known as our ‘Wall of weird’ and generally having a fun time. In the evening the bag of toys came out, Miss had packed so I wasn’t aware of what had been brought at all. First things first was a nice shower together in the large double shower of our room, in this Miss teased me and offered me the chance to cum or wait till later, I chose to abstain then allowed to shave Miss’ legs. After this I was told to go to put the cage on, and whilst doing that Miss had placed a suction cup dildo on the outside of the shower which she told me to start sucking whilst she finished her shower. Whilst blowing the cock she teased me by playing with herself, rubbing her tits and teasing her ass, all whilst I had a perfect view of her sexy self with a cock in my mouth.
We then went to bed where I was allowed to worship her body, much licking ass and pussy, fingering both holes and general amazing shenanigans. I was then told to put on the strapon she’d brought and fuck her. The strapon is bigger than me by a fair margin and it was a turn on as well as a bit humiliating to feel her grinding back into it whilst I fucked her with it, I did leak whilst fucking her. Miss then decided to play with me, eating my ass which I ALWAYS love but she really went at it, she was aggressively doing it and it couldn’t have been hotter. Then there was plugging and a attempt at fucking with the strapon (advise on good strapons more than welcome! We have a doc Johnson with a couple of dildos but the straps aren’t great) it felt amazing backing onto it but my ass wasn’t ready for her fucking me with it.
We did other things and chilled a bit but overall I couldn’t have asked for a more fun night.
Since we’ve got back Miss has come up with a new rule that when she gets home I must present her with lube, plug, panties (if ones being worn aren’t to her liking) and bend over.
This evening was the first night of this, having been plugged we also went to the gym for an hour with me plugged and panties which felt odd but in a really good way. This evening Miss has so far orgasmed twice once watching some porn I picked out for her masterbating whilst I wasn’t in the room but also knowing she was, and another after getting back from the gym with the vibrator and my face between her ass cheeks. I think life is most definitely good.
So we recieved our first cage this week, I’ve had others in the past but nothing quiet like this one. Its a much smaller cage than I’ve had previously and the ring seems to be a comfortable size.
Other than one issue (it litterally fell off completely, which since I’ve tested and neither of us can figure out how my ball came out!). I do still have trouble with my smaller ball escaping but its tiny comparatively and can be understood. But the device itself is comfortable, I’ve slept in it each night since we got it and not had any problems. Morning wood has been a touch sore but not unbearable and Miss has applied the vibrator to the cage which had the same effect, but overall I’m happy with it. Planning to order a new ring a size down to prevent the fall out, and possibly a urethral tube (as I believe given my previous piercing (apadravya) it’ll help keep everything a bit more hygenic and therefore better for longer wear. I am really happy that Miss has taken to this and she does seem happy with it.
Began the actual making of the spreader bars this weekend and the progress has been quiet quick.
We bought the following items to make them:-
- 1 Single length of wood cut into sections at the hardware store
- A work bench
- Mitre guide
- Hand saw
- Cuffs (ankle & wrist)
I first of all had to straighten the cuts in the wood, they weren’t as straight as I’d have liked so with the mitre guide I recut knocking a little bit off each pole. Then sanding down the edges to smooth them a little so that if a foot/wrist gets knicked by the pole its not going to hurt too much.
Each pole is going to be sanded fully before painting but have already drilled the guide holes for the eyelets, and had a bit of a test run to make sure the size is ok.
More progress to come but attaching the pictures of the work so far.
Sorry for the extremely long time to update, but the spreader bars have I promise been completed for quiet some time. I’ve not got any pictures of them in use as such (although I must say they are very fun when on my knees with Miss fucking my ass).
As you can tell I’ve painted the rods to give them a nice metallic sheen, and to completely contrast restraints. I think they’ve turned out pretty well and really can’t wait for them to be used more.
So yesterday I had a rather dull morning, but I had woken up with an idea in my head that wouldn’t shift. I practically begged Miss to spank my ass till it was red. All this whilst she was at work for the day, I was working from home and had to go to a dental appointment and then a rather boring meeting. Miss made a stipulation that I could have 5 spanks for every task I completed on OurHome, now I hadn’t slept the evening before so I had already completed a good few tasks so was already in for a session of spanking.
But I went to work tidying and doing little bits, after a few I was more doing them because they needed doing than the spanking I would recieve so I had actually done over 20 by the time that Miss got home. Miss had asked me to put on something skimpy and pink, also to have the paddle prepared on the bed for when she got home. All done with gusto and excitement, I really was looking forward to my bottom being red. I put on some stockings, a gstring with a lacey front and pink fabric as well as the high heels I purchased months ago.
When Miss got back she was surprised by the shoes (she thought it was weird how tall I was), although later she said “She didn’t hate the shoes” (Open to a comment Miss on whether you don’t hate or do like?). I’d got out 2 paddles, a cane & an over the door restraint Miss had purchased a little while ago. She decided on the paddle she wanted to use, the restraint to hold me still and also a blindfold.
The Results you might say was definitely to my liking
Today I’ve been able to feel the slight bruises (a rather pleasant reminder).
I found an app for android or iPhone called OurHome its a little kiddy in design but allows for setup of various different tasks and also a list of rewards. Each task completed gives a predefined number of points which can be spent on rewards. Miss spent some time yesterday tuning the tasks and adding some rewards to it and I’ve been ticking off what I’ve done thus far.
At the bottom I’ve include a couple of screenshots of how it tracks things. You’re able to setup recurring tasks, tasks that can be completed a few times and the like. We’ve only just started using it so yet to really do much with it but I’ll keep you posted. If you want something that’s easy to track after a bit of setup it seems quiet good though.