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2
Oct

Work, work, pain balance

So been a little quiet the last few days, but there has been some kink in the mix of crazy amounts of work and stressful days. Works been a bit of a bitch, just got a few new things we’re set to do which is all fine etc. but first day we’re due to start 3 client facing systems decide to go kablooey. Leaving me and my one colleague in my team rushing around to sort them and forgetting our new task. Gotta say less than ideal, we got it done about 1 hour or so later than planned annoyingly and with a bit of snark from our manager. What can we say multiple systems break we fix them in an hour and then get snark for the new thing slipping our minds with the critical incidents setting fires…

In terms of kink though, I had another spurt (pardon the pun) of ejections. Miss was making cake for a charity day at work (same charity as my custard & cinnamon buns), and in between bakes she had me come kiss her beautiful ass. As she was due back in the kitchen she told me I had to follow and didn’t instruct me to stop kissing, I must say you see people doing this in videos etc. and its quiet the workout to keep up with the walking folk and continue to kiss an ass. Immediately Miss laughed a bit and every bit of my body reacted with me very soon finding myself in very damp panties. Once she was done in the kitchen I continued following as she’d not said to stop and was lead to the bedroom where I was placed at the end of the bed, face inches from her after handing her the wand. Again whilst she was playing I left several wet patches not just in my panties but soaking through to the bed itself.

Now the funny thing is we have a very powerful wand… during playing Miss pulled my head that close to watch her playing that I actually found my head was touching the vibrator, on several occasions the bridge of my nose too. It took so much willpower not to laugh (its rather amusing having a powerful vibrator touching your head!) and actually couldn’t help myself but laugh once, and begin sneezing a few times (bridge of nose + vibrator = better than pepper to make you sneeze!). After a few orgasms Miss stopped and I had to tell her the above, we both laughed and cuddled for a bit before going back to snuggle on the couch.

Other work stuff in between has just been chaotic at best, especially as Miss has had a very bad tum since around Friday/Saturday (can’t recall exactly) so we’ve been dosing her with pills & milk of magnesia, hopefully she’s getting better as I hate seeing her in pain like she’s been.

Anyways, thought I’d give a brief update on what we’ve been upto. Please don’t hesitate to comment or drop me a message.

27
Sep

That was unexpected…

The baking went down well today, I may not have won star baker but then the judges 1.) didn’t like cinnamon & 2.) didn’t get any of my egg custard because it was gone before they could.

Today again Miss hasn’t been feeling great, so an evening looking after her. When I got home I made a shopping list of items we need and meals we could have over the next week and rushed to the shop. Spent next to no time getting things and rushed home to feed Miss, I’m only still up because I’m making sure she has leggings for work tomorrow. It’ll be a long day because I’m dropped her off at 7.30am and then working for a bit from home before going to the dentists.

The unexpected turn to my evening, whilst sat at my desk just toddling around online I kind of accidentally rubbed my nipple… and instantly started to feel that familiar pulse between my legs, and there I was not shooting more dribbling a full load. Now since getting back from the shops I’ve been plugged, in my nice little nighty and a very very sexy g-string. But this is the first time I’ve experienced quiet a reaction from nothing, now I’ve cum from just pleasuring Miss, I’ve cum very fast in other scenarios but wow a rub of my nipple and boom. I had started to get the slight familiar ache in my balls but this seems to have alleviated that too. So that’s a good thing, or else I’d have had to request unlock from Miss (I’m not kidding since surgery on my testicles pain there = me not walking/moving).

23
Sep

Why I like being dressed up

So I imagine different sissies have different reasons for enjoying/’enjoying’ being dressed up. For me it’s definitely enjoying it, I love Miss choosing out my clothes (the control aspect is amazing), and dressing me up in skirts, sexy women’s clothes and other cute items adds a level of humiliation to it.

I am loving the extra control Miss is taking, having me plugged more (which to be honest was mostly due to my guts) and making me do things whilst dressed (the drive out as I explained in the earlier post).

I think some of my reasons for wanting the dressing up aspect are based on my own life experiences, I recall being about 14/15 and playing truth or dare with a friend and I was the one pressuring to be put into his mum’s clothes, when I was even younger helping paint at home I was put into one of my sister’s skirts and had my family laughing at me. I think these things impacted me to such an extent that I really do immediately although not always noticably become humiliated with recollections of the painting incident, the somewhere internally I connect humiliation to arousal and enjoyment.

Psychologically I connect all these things to positive things despite the more often negative impact humiliation has.

17
Sep

Being a little energetic

As Miss went to bed I started getting random “fantasy scenarios” pop into my head, so I messaged the first to Miss (it was that she sent me out for a drive dressed as I was), messages continued and it became evident that I was very sexually coiled (to quote myself “you’re driving me mad with lust… and I like it”).

Miss decided it would be a good idea if I went for that little drive and took some photos whilst I was out. I took a few in the car before setting off below.

Then I started my drive, deciding to drive over to nearby Castleton, as I was setting off plugged, dressed and caged I could feel just how excited I was as Miss’ cock began to leak in its panties. Clearly I was worked up and I was really liking it (its the effect Miss has on me!), as I was driving there were several cars I drove past which I wondered to myself if they could see me. Then driving through some of the slower roads (its in the country with several 60/50 mph roads on the way there, but also villages with 30mph limits) I was passing people and again wondering if they could see this sissy sat in the car driving which just proceeded to get me more excited.

For the little photo shoot I took after getting out of the car I took a photo of a nearby sign to show where I had been to Miss with evidence, as well as several pictures of myself which I quickly messaged to Miss.

I had a ton of fun and excitement on the drive there and back, constantly wondering and constantly excited. I hope I made Miss proud x

16
Sep

Feelings lately

So lately you may have noticed my post increase (and thanks to the kind people that have commented etc.). I think this has mostly been because recently I’ve been in a very mentally submissive state for a prolonged time, I know a lot of the time you hear the line “I’d do anything” etc. and of course I know there are limits (scat being the first to spring to my mind at least), but within my limits I would be willing to do anything that Miss asked, not that I wouldn’t normally but there’s a definite urgency to please her by doing what she wants, trying to go that extra mile and do things before she asks, being more willing to stretch myself and do more.

Its a bit like “Well I’m a submissive normally, but the way I’ve been I’ve felt super sub” and its difficult to explain. I’ve been like this since Miss first locked me recently, my ass is always ready to do whatever she wants (in more ways than one). We don’t really have many/any kinky friends really so there’s not really anyone to talk to about it (that I’m aware of anyway) so it can be tricky at times to kind of vocalise how I feel beyond talking to Miss.

8
Sep

New Clothes Shopping

What could have been a very plain weekend turned into a very nice one, off the Manchester we went and out shopping (normally a task we both disklike). This shopping trip was different though, Miss had plans… we were shopping for clothes for me, specifically skirts and tops.

After walking round a large amount of shops we set on our last shop before going back home empty handed both a little sad we’d not found what we were looking for. Here in this last shop though we hit the jackpot, Miss choose several skirts out for me and then insisted I try them on. It was at this point I was anxious, in a good way. Who knows what they’d think/say etc.

Still not sure what they’d be thinking of a guy going into the changing room with three skirts and coming out and choosing 2 (Miss decided the last wasn’t that good (which I agreed with)). We went back to the house and chilled for a couple of days, occasionally sending messages and such to each other which just kept me aroused. We also went and did a bit more shopping for food and such where Miss spotted a few tops and other bits she liked which we picked up.

On the way back home today, Miss had me stop whilst we were driving back and change into some of the new clothes, top and skirt were to be put on at the road side (busy road between Sheffield and Manchester I add)

So at the road side I stripped to my cute panties and cage with nothing else and got into my new top and skirt, I felt slightly humiliated, 100% aroused and 100% submissive. I can’t believe how hot it was! Miss then couldn’t keep her hands off me all the way back, touching her caged cock and teasing.

When we got back, Miss had me check the mail and proceed to the bedroom where I was to do a little fashion show for her.

I think Miss approved as then I was told to hand her the wand and lie next to her, I was to only touch her nipples either with my hands or mouth. She told me I was to tell her how each outfit made me feel between playing with her nipples which I proceeded to. Outfit 1 which I drove in made me feel very cute, its a bit lady like and I really liked that, outfit two made me feel slutty and a bit cute (the nipples on show, but crop tops are cute!), and outfit 3 made me feel a bit slutty and also sultry xD. Miss must have liked my explanation and little show as she then had me lick her ass whilst she continued with the wand, I love when she does this as I feel like her little whore being used how she wants she allowed me to feel how wet she was with my face and she was fully dripping.

Sat here in outfit 3 writing this her cock is straining against its cage thinking about the wonderful weekend and play.

21
Apr

Couple of days to ourselves

Miss and I have planned to have Easter Sunday & Bank Holiday Monday all to ourselves with minimal plans.

So far I’ve showered and shaved, had Miss tease me till the point of leaking and not long after had Miss request the wand and me on my knees filling my ass whilst she played again to me leaking. I’ll continue to update this post with any more of our goings on over the 2 days (I am excited and love that we have this time!).

Picture that Miss took during the above:-

Me whilst Miss watched

After this Miss decided she wanted to once again use the wand, after that though Miss “needed” her cock. I was allowed an orgasm during this which was a nice release.

Rather annoyingly today Miss balls have been causing me pain (normally a result of not having orgasm’d for a while) I can only assume it is because I’ve been horny all weekend long :(.

25
Mar

A new first

All day yesterday despite being unlocked I’ve not cum since last allowed and was feeling the effects HARD. I’ve basically been constantly horny, I sent a few messages to Miss to suggest she’d be able to make me do anything (which is true most of the time anyway but lets be honest when horny it strikes harder!).

Miss then had me go out to the car to retrieve the cage wearing nothing but shoes and the pretty pink lacey thong I was wearing. My god that turned me on more than it should, the humiliation underlying the risk of being caught. I was then allowed to remove the thong when I got in (it was clear it wasn’t holding much in) and Miss allowed me to lick her for a while. I was then told to go get the wand for her and a toy for me, I brought back the long big glass dildo, lube and wand. Miss allowed me back on the couch where she just spread her legs and started playing whilst telling me to use the toy on myself. A lot of moaning and groaning later (from both of us) and a lot of looking at Miss beautiful perfect pussy she’d cum and she started to hold the wand against her cock. Miss allowed me to cum which was a relief and we both lay on the couch for a while after. Very fun night and I do love the humiliation Miss put me through.

 

 

30
Jul

Long time coming.

So we’ve been rather distracted with everything and not been playing much, life in the way and all that.

This weekend we had a night at a hotel, some fun times during the day and a hell of a lot of fun in the evening, all resulting in Miss seeming to have her mojo back.

Saturday we spent a good few hours going around the Manchester MCM, which was a lot of fun. Both of us enjoying seeing people’s immense efforts at their cosplays, meeting a ton of awesome artists as well as buying a ton of art for what shall nicely be known as our ‘Wall of weird’ and generally having a fun time. In the evening the bag of toys came out, Miss had packed so I wasn’t aware of what had been brought at all. First things first was a nice shower together in the large double shower of our room, in this Miss teased me and offered me the chance to cum or wait till later, I chose to abstain then allowed to shave Miss’ legs. After this I was told to go to put the cage on, and whilst doing that Miss had placed a suction cup dildo on the outside of the shower which she told me to start sucking whilst she finished her shower. Whilst blowing the cock she teased me by playing with herself, rubbing her tits and teasing her ass, all whilst I had a perfect view of her sexy self with a cock in my mouth.

We then went to bed where I was allowed to worship her body, much licking ass and pussy, fingering both holes and general amazing shenanigans. I was then told to put on the strapon she’d brought and fuck her. The strapon is bigger than me by a fair margin and it was a turn on as well as a bit humiliating to feel her grinding back into it whilst I fucked her with it, I did leak whilst fucking her. Miss then decided to play with me, eating my ass which I ALWAYS love but she really went at it, she was aggressively doing it and it couldn’t have been hotter. Then there was plugging and a attempt at fucking with the strapon (advise on good strapons more than welcome! We have a doc Johnson with a couple of dildos but the straps aren’t great) it felt amazing backing onto it but my ass wasn’t ready for her fucking me with it.

We did other things and chilled a bit but overall I couldn’t have asked for a more fun night.

Since we’ve got back Miss has come up with a new rule that when she gets home I must present her with lube, plug, panties (if ones being worn aren’t to her liking) and bend over.

This evening was the first night of this, having been plugged we also went to the gym for an hour with me plugged and panties which felt odd but in a really good way. This evening Miss has so far orgasmed twice once watching some porn I picked out for her masterbating whilst I wasn’t in the room but also knowing she was, and another after getting back from the gym with the vibrator and my face between her ass cheeks. I think life is most definitely good.

29
Apr

Humiliation Ideas

This is the first of three blog posts which I plan to expand over time, you’ll see the theme. Its something I’ve long tried to get a collated list of things to suggest etc. mixing it up with various bits I’m ever very turned on by or excited or scared. Kind of a kinky bucketlist if you will.

  • Dress in full women’s clothing for all activities
  • Have all male underwear taken and locked in a box. Sub must wear female underwear of Miss’ choice, Miss’ could even make him wear your underwear from the day before.
  • Humiliate sub in public…take him shopping for panties/lingerie and make him ask size questions
  • Make sub eat his own cum
  • Make sub do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats, aerobics, yoga…) naked, plugged
  • Make your sub orgasm and shoot his cum onto your strap on.  Spread it around, use it as lube, and fuck his ass hard
  • Make your sub orgasm and shoot his cum onto Miss’ strap on.  Spread it around, and then make sub deep throat it, and suck and lick it all up until the strap on is clean
  • Make your sub cum into an ice cube tray several times, until he has enough to make a cum cube.  When he is disobedient, make him suck on the cum cube until it is gone
  • Make a home date day, and dress your sub up in makeup, stockings, and heels, and make him your maid for the day
  • Get a suction cup dildo and mount on hard floor, bend sub over and fuck him in the ass while you push his head up and down on the cock.  Make him your cock whore
  • Face fuck sub with your strap on, by holding on to his ears, and plowing into him with force so that you are causing him to gag
  • Invite a girlfriend over for a night of torment to show your friend how you train your sub
  • Make sub wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl or a French maid.
  • Make subdo housework naked or dressed in women’s clothes, maybe with sub being plugged or with nipple clamps. A bell around your cock and balls.
  • Make sub hand wash Your panties and lingerie.
  • Make sub polish Your shoes with his tongue.
  • Make sub wear a collar and lead him around with a leash, like a dog.
  • Make sub walk around gym locker room nude
  • Attach a leash to subs balls or cock ring, and lead him around with that. Tie it off in front of the sink while he does the dishes.
  • Make your sub cum onto your asshole, and then lick it all up
  • Ride sub around as Your pony boy…spurs? a riding crop?
  • Dress sub up like the slut that he is, wear a strap-on dildo and make him beg to suck it. fuck him. (don’t forget the fuck-me red lipstick!)
  • Make sub wear Your panties or lingerie under his regular clothes when he goes out or goes to work so that he will think of his Mistress constantly.
  • Body writing is always a fun way to humiliate sub, pick 10 degrading words/phrases and them wherever you wish on his body in pen or lipstick.
  • Make sub masturbate for You, make him beg for permission to cum, don’t let him, punish him if he does.
  • Make him earn his rewards; for example:Allow him to kiss Your ass after the dishes are done.

    1 minute of pleasure for him for 10 minutes of Yours. 5 minutes of pleasure for him after he makes You cum 5 times. Spank him 10 times for each minute it takes him to make You cum.

     

    If You think he’s earned an orgasm, make him cum on Your feet or Your ass and then make him lick You clean.

  • Order sub to bring himself to the edge of orgasm and stay there until You give him permission. When You give the command he must cum within 5 seconds or he will be punished and/or not allowed to cum at all. (keep him that way for 30 minutes, an hour…or as long as You want)
  • If subs really horny and bothering You, You may want to curb his interest by ordering him to jerk off 5 or 6 times in a row. Use it as skin conditioner… 3 times on each foot, have him spread it around and lick them clean after each time.
  • Always make sub lick You clean after sex.
  • When You go out, order him to tie himself up, be naked or dressed up as a girl and be kneeling at the door for when You arrive.
  • Lock a padlock on his balls.
  • Give sub a golden shower.
  • Make sub think of a new way for You to humiliate him. Punish him if You don’t think it’s good enough. Make him post it to the net (and send it to me to add to the list)
  • Have sub lick You clean after you pee. 

 

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