Experiences | Me, my kink and I

Aug

A frustrating evening

Yesterday evening after work, having decided earlier in the day that She would like another fucking with the strapon, and that I would be allowed a blowjob as a reward if I was able to not spurt during fucking her with the strapon. We warmed up with me licking and fingering Miss as well as her using the wand on her clit. I’d already caged Miss’ cock and put on the strapon harness, with the big thick 8″ cock. After she felt ready Miss told me to fuck her, despite being caged I still had a very messy ruined orgasm.

Now came the problem, not at all of any action of Miss. I’d been really looking forward to being in Miss mouth, to say she’s talented would be an understatement. I’ve never cum in her mouth even during the time whilst we were relatively vanilla (due to her personal dislike of cum due to previous relationships), but she is more than capable of getting me insanely worked up and close. So you can imagine how I felt about myself, I’d just managed to blow an amazing opportunity to have a lot pleasure all due to being incapable of stopping myself spurting. Miss wasn’t disappointed, or let down etc. but it put me in a very off mood for the rest of the evening. At myself but I can understand it wasn’t fun to be around me in that mood. I loved how much Miss enjoyed me fucking her, and the resulting orgasms. I really do, I just really need to work on being able to get over my own failure to control myself. For a long time it’s been something I’ve despised about myself (hated is far too mild a word for it). I don’t lack in size, I’m above average and I know what to do with it but I’m incapable of controlling when I spurt, whether it’s to full orgasm or ruined. It’s beyond a joke how quickly I need to stop in a stop start technique, I’ve tried cialis and over the counter sex shop pills, I’ve tried prescribed medical numbing cream.

Miss is going to assist me in edging sessions (blog post to follow after today’s experience). Anyway that’s a enough for now I think, if anyone wants to ask anything or has any suggestions please comment or contact me.

Jul

Long time coming.

So we’ve been rather distracted with everything and not been playing much, life in the way and all that.

This weekend we had a night at a hotel, some fun times during the day and a hell of a lot of fun in the evening, all resulting in Miss seeming to have her mojo back.

Saturday we spent a good few hours going around the Manchester MCM, which was a lot of fun. Both of us enjoying seeing people’s immense efforts at their cosplays, meeting a ton of awesome artists as well as buying a ton of art for what shall nicely be known as our ‘Wall of weird’ and generally having a fun time. In the evening the bag of toys came out, Miss had packed so I wasn’t aware of what had been brought at all. First things first was a nice shower together in the large double shower of our room, in this Miss teased me and offered me the chance to cum or wait till later, I chose to abstain then allowed to shave Miss’ legs. After this I was told to go to put the cage on, and whilst doing that Miss had placed a suction cup dildo on the outside of the shower which she told me to start sucking whilst she finished her shower. Whilst blowing the cock she teased me by playing with herself, rubbing her tits and teasing her ass, all whilst I had a perfect view of her sexy self with a cock in my mouth.

We then went to bed where I was allowed to worship her body, much licking ass and pussy, fingering both holes and general amazing shenanigans. I was then told to put on the strapon she’d brought and fuck her. The strapon is bigger than me by a fair margin and it was a turn on as well as a bit humiliating to feel her grinding back into it whilst I fucked her with it, I did leak whilst fucking her. Miss then decided to play with me, eating my ass which I ALWAYS love but she really went at it, she was aggressively doing it and it couldn’t have been hotter. Then there was plugging and a attempt at fucking with the strapon (advise on good strapons more than welcome! We have a doc Johnson with a couple of dildos but the straps aren’t great) it felt amazing backing onto it but my ass wasn’t ready for her fucking me with it.

We did other things and chilled a bit but overall I couldn’t have asked for a more fun night.

Since we’ve got back Miss has come up with a new rule that when she gets home I must present her with lube, plug, panties (if ones being worn aren’t to her liking) and bend over.

This evening was the first night of this, having been plugged we also went to the gym for an hour with me plugged and panties which felt odd but in a really good way. This evening Miss has so far orgasmed twice once watching some porn I picked out for her masterbating whilst I wasn’t in the room but also knowing she was, and another after getting back from the gym with the vibrator and my face between her ass cheeks. I think life is most definitely good.

Jun

Testing a New Method

I found an app for android or iPhone called OurHome its a little kiddy in design but allows for setup of various different tasks and also a list of rewards. Each task completed gives a predefined number of points which can be spent on rewards. Miss spent some time yesterday tuning the tasks and adding some rewards to it and I’ve been ticking off what I’ve done thus far.

At the bottom I’ve include a couple of screenshots of how it tracks things. You’re able to setup recurring tasks, tasks that can be completed a few times and the like. We’ve only just started using it so yet to really do much with it but I’ll keep you posted. If you want something that’s easy to track after a bit of setup it seems quiet good though.

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Apr

Play Ideas

Last but not least, if you want any other lists adding or have any suggestions for the existing lists please drop me a message.

Make him strip naked while You keep Your clothes on.
You will perform oral sex upon demand.
You may not orgasm without permission.
You will do what you are told in the bedroom.
Go to nude beach
Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on.
Have him kneel before You and kiss Your feet.
Have him address You as a name of your choosing.
Have him kiss Your ass…make him beg to kiss Your ass.
You will strip naked whenever told to do so.
Tie his hands and have him undress You with his mouth/teeth.
Don’t let him masturbate or touch his cock without Your permission at any time.
Tie his hands behind his back. Have him kneel with knees spread naked in front of You while You read or watch TV, occasionally nudging his balls or penis with Your shoes.
She conducts frequent, frustrating tease and denial sessions that are agony for him and fun for Her. An ice-pack is then applied to his dick so She can immediately get him back in his male chastity device.
Either order him to stay erect, or don’t give him permission to have a hard on… either way, punish him if he fails!
Use some strong string (kite string), tie a slip noose in the end and tighten it around the head of the penis, tug on it, pull it shake it, lead him with it, whatever You please.
Making me do things and monitoring while I do them, and applying punishment for her amusement or to correct me
Me being in chastity at work and you sending me sexy messages/pictures
Having you play with my ass while in chastity
Tied down and being left/teased/used as she wishes
Told to do housework naked/with plug/chaste
Licking her and being spanked for doing it incorrectly
Making me fuck her with a strapon or with a cock gag
You decide on the length of the lock up.
You get to decide how he cums and how you have sex.
Your owner is entitled to tease you about your lack of ability to attain an erection or gain any satisfaction. She has taken it away from you and wants to enjoy it. She can get satisfaction whenever she wants: you can’t. Tough. She probably finds that amusing.
Show Your slave Your panty crotch, make him smell it, but no touching without permission.
Tie Your slave spread eagle to the bed and tease him for hours. Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it when he needs just a little more encouragement, don’t let him cum.
Put on his favourite lingerie and tease him with Your beauty.
Make him wear a chastity belt or cock cage.
Make him screw himself with a dildo.
Scratch him with Your finger nails.Tickle him. Pinch his nipples.
Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss Your nipple. Let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg.
Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and let him think about what else You might do.
Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste the crotch of Your panties…get more promises
Blindfold him and make him lick You to several orgasms. Take a break, cum back and do it all again.
Rub his face against Your pussy or sit on his face but gag him with Your panties or a gag so that he can’t lick You.
Tie his balls off to something behind him so he has to tug on them to smell Your panties or kiss Your ass…stay just out of reach.
Masturbate in front of him. Use a dildo or a vibrator.
Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy You with it. Do it so his nose presses between Your ass cheeks. He’ll be Your little brown noser and love it.
Make him lick the dildo clean.
Tie him down to the bed and tie his hands to his penis but do not give him permission to cum with harsh punishments for disobedience.
Put Your worn panties over his head so he can smell your odor.
Make him wear a cock ring (a watch strap or cat collar works well)
Have him pamper You, have him:give You a foot/back/full body massage

give You a pedicure/manicure,

paint Your finger/toe nails.

bathe You/shave your legs.

cook and serve You a nice dinner.