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Long time coming.

So we’ve been rather distracted with everything and not been playing much, life in the way and all that.

This weekend we had a night at a hotel, some fun times during the day and a hell of a lot of fun in the evening, all resulting in Miss seeming to have her mojo back.

Saturday we spent a good few hours going around the Manchester MCM, which was a lot of fun. Both of us enjoying seeing people’s immense efforts at their cosplays, meeting a ton of awesome artists as well as buying a ton of art for what shall nicely be known as our ‘Wall of weird’ and generally having a fun time. In the evening the bag of toys came out, Miss had packed so I wasn’t aware of what had been brought at all. First things first was a nice shower together in the large double shower of our room, in this Miss teased me and offered me the chance to cum or wait till later, I chose to abstain then allowed to shave Miss’ legs. After this I was told to go to put the cage on, and whilst doing that Miss had placed a suction cup dildo on the outside of the shower which she told me to start sucking whilst she finished her shower. Whilst blowing the cock she teased me by playing with herself, rubbing her tits and teasing her ass, all whilst I had a perfect view of her sexy self with a cock in my mouth.

We then went to bed where I was allowed to worship her body, much licking ass and pussy, fingering both holes and general amazing shenanigans. I was then told to put on the strapon she’d brought and fuck her. The strapon is bigger than me by a fair margin and it was a turn on as well as a bit humiliating to feel her grinding back into it whilst I fucked her with it, I did leak whilst fucking her. Miss then decided to play with me, eating my ass which I ALWAYS love but she really went at it, she was aggressively doing it and it couldn’t have been hotter. Then there was plugging and a attempt at fucking with the strapon (advise on good strapons more than welcome! We have a doc Johnson with a couple of dildos but the straps aren’t great) it felt amazing backing onto it but my ass wasn’t ready for her fucking me with it.

We did other things and chilled a bit but overall I couldn’t have asked for a more fun night.

Since we’ve got back Miss has come up with a new rule that when she gets home I must present her with lube, plug, panties (if ones being worn aren’t to her liking) and bend over.

This evening was the first night of this, having been plugged we also went to the gym for an hour with me plugged and panties which felt odd but in a really good way. This evening Miss has so far orgasmed twice once watching some porn I picked out for her masterbating whilst I wasn’t in the room but also knowing she was, and another after getting back from the gym with the vibrator and my face between her ass cheeks. I think life is most definitely good.


Testing a New Method

I found an app for android or iPhone called OurHome its a little kiddy in design but allows for setup of various different tasks and also a list of rewards. Each task completed gives a predefined number of points which can be spent on rewards. Miss spent some time yesterday tuning the tasks and adding some rewards to it and I’ve been ticking off what I’ve done thus far.

At the bottom I’ve include a couple of screenshots of how it tracks things. You’re able to setup recurring tasks, tasks that can be completed a few times and the like. We’ve only just started using it so yet to really do much with it but I’ll keep you posted. If you want something that’s easy to track after a bit of setup it seems quiet good though.




Possible Femdom Rules

  1. sub will always dress to please Miss, wether naked or in clothes that sub believes would please Miss. If Miss wishes for sub to change sub will do so without complaint.
  2. When undressing, sub is to fold the clothes and place them out of the way.
  3. sub will wear and gratefully accept any toys Miss chooses to insert or adorn him with while serving or in any other circumstance.
  4. sub may request an opportunity to serve Miss in the following way: “Would it please you to have your sub serve you?”
  5. sub will always thank Miss for an opportunity to serve whether it was doing chores or being flogged.
  6. sub will serve Miss with food and drinks as requested, kneeling as the food or drinks are presented. In the presence of others, sub will still serve Miss, but does not have to do so on his knees unless expressly commanded by Miss.
  7. sub will remain attentive to make sure that Miss never has to ask for additional food or drink, whether in private or in the presence of others. A good sub is always ready before the command is issued.
  8. sub must use high protocol when playing the sub role. This means that sub will not use first person language when referring to him or herself, but shall always refer to the sub with the following references:sub must use high protocol when playing the sub role. This means that sub will not use first person language when referring to him or herself, but shall always refer to the sub with the following references:
    • sub
    • Miss’s pet
    • cum slut
    • dirty little whore
    • naughty girl
    • the unworthy one
    • bad/good dog
  9. sub will tend to Miss’s bath needs further by shaving her legs and pussy when needed. sub will be very careful in this and go slowly as to avoid injury to Miss. sub will lick and kiss every part of Miss that he has shaven after he is done as a sign of gratitude for Misss bestowing the honor on sub. Once sub has completed Misss bathing, sub will dry Miss fully, then apply lotion to Misss entire body. sub will then ask Miss for permission to assist Miss in getting dressed/ready, and respond appropriately.
  10. Punishment and or discipline take precedence over any other command.
  11. sub must show gratitude for punishment and or discipline.
  12. sub must take correction gracefully and maintain a grateful presence around the house after the fact.
  13. sub must ALWAYS confess to disobedience and take responsibility even when Miss is not present and beg for punishment and or discipline. If Miss is unavailable for immediate punishment, sub must come up with a suitable mini-punishment for himself, carry it out, report it to Miss and await Misss final judgment and punishment.
  14. sub must be available for sexual service whenever Miss requires.
  15. sub must always be ready for any form of sexual service, which would mean that his body must be prepared in order to make it easy for Miss to use him.
  16. sub will be clean and pleasant to all the senses at all times.
  17. sub will not be allowed to have an orgasm without permission.
  18. sub is not allowed to touch his owner’s property without permission in any sexual way.
  19. sub should never question Miss’s commands, and simply must immediately upon receiving them proceed to carry out his task gratefully.
  20. sub surrenders control to his Miss. He surrenders control of his body, how he spends his time, how he dresses, what he eats, where he sleeps. In all aspects, the Miss controls the sub.
  21. sub’s purpose is to please his Miss, more than anything else She owns, he must learn to control his response to sexual stimulation for the greater enjoyment of his Miss. his orgasm is the only that the sub has left to control for himself. Failure to control his orgasm is disobedience. Disobedience requires punishment.
  22. If Miss prefers simply to torment the sub and deny him release, then the sub must control himself to provide Her this pleasure. sub must dedicate himself to abstinence and thank his Miss humbly for removing the pleasure of ejaculation, thus allowing him to dedicate his lost pleasure to Her.
  23. If Miss demands satisfaction through sexual intercourse, sub must be able to control effectively his own orgasm so that it is timed to the pleasure of his Miss. His purpose is not to please himself but to please Her.
  24. sub should be as clean-shaven as the Miss requires: from the top of his head to his toes, body hair should be present only if the Miss allows it.
  25. sub will allow himself to be pierced or tattooed as required by his Miss, if safely and professionally done.
  26. sub will submit to enemas, or self-administer enemas, on demand by the Miss.
  27. When urinating, sub will always sit on the toilet; no exceptions.
  28. When a meal is over sub must be quick to clear the table and wash the dishes.
  29. sub will perform all household chores for the Miss, to include:
    • sweep and vacuum all floors and carpets
    • mop and was all floors
    • dust and polish all furniture
    • make the beds every day
    • wash and fold all clothing and linens
    • iron
    • scrub bathrooms
    • clean kitchen
    • cook simple meals; assist in all cooking
    • wash dishes and put them away
    • shop for groceries and put them away
    • take out trash and sort recycled items
    • run all errands as directed
  30. sub worships my Miss’s body and Her whole
  31. sub trust his Miss: Her responsibilities, Her skills, Her hunger and needs, and Her concern for my safety, my emotional, psychological, social, sexual, and physical health.
  32. When the pussy of Miss’ is put onto my mouth and sub is directed to suck it – sub will do so vigorously as long as sub is required to do so.
  33. sub will worship Miss’ ass and lick it clean whenever She wants me to. sub shall do so hungrily, being sure to lick between the cheeks for as long as Miss requires. sub may use my hands to spread my Miss’s cheeks apart.
  34. sub must remove all of my clothing in the way sub have been taught when Miss commands me to do so – regardless of who may be present and despite where it is sub am.
  35. my greatest felt satisfaction is realized when sub know sub have pleased my Miss
  36. The opportunity to please my Miss is very important to me and sub will take every chance to seek out such opportunities to do so to the best of my abilities and in accordance to how sub has been taught or allowed to do so.
  37. my Miss is my greatest treasure.
  38. The safeword given to me by my Miss can be spoken at any time-even when sub have been told to be silent. If sub is not able to verbalize it – sub trusts my Miss will show me how sub can express it. Safewords are for my protection as well as Hers. sub must be careful not to take more than sub can handle, as She will need to know when to stop from getting carried away with Her own passions – so that sub may be prepared over time to endure more for Her.
  39. sub shall never think of himself as a weak person for it takes a strong slave to commit to the drive inside me, to serve, to obey and to please Miss. sub too has responsibilities and as natural as they may seem to me it is important that sub use all of my faculties including my creative spirit to submit to my Miss in a unique fashion personal to my relationship with Her. By doing so sub hopes to provide a good example to those males around me who may still be learning so they too are not led astray from their primary focus, that they are as true to their nature as sub strives to continue to be to mine. sub must remember that how well sub behave enlightens and empowers me to become even closer to who sub is – a devoted slave, of good rapport to a Miss who truly understands my needs in relationship to Her own.
  40. sub may, at times, offer various parts of my body to my Miss in hopes She will take pleasure in using them in whatever ways She wishes. my only hope will be that my offering will please Her. If not, sub wants Her to punish me.
  41. Miss’ cock must be available for Her to use at all times.
  42. If required: a plug of Miss’ choice  must be inserted deeply into my ass before arriving at my Miss’s house. Failure to do so and sub shall feel the punishment She will give upon my ass as sub keep the cheeks of it pulled apart – for the plug was not intended to provide me pleasure.
  43. sub hope Miss will choose to use my tongue as Her towel after Her shower so sub may be able to worship Her body.
  44. Until Miss has chosen it is time for me to wear a more permanent mark of ownership upon my flesh, sub shall proudly wear Her temporary mark of ownership upon me wherever She chooses to place it.
  45. sub shall gladly make my body available to my Miss to be used as furniture: my body positioned to decorate a room or a garden, a footstool to rest Her weary feet and legs upon, my backside as Her table to eat off of, my palms to be used to hold a plate of Her food, or my hands to hold a book open for Her to read or a lamp for Her to see.
  46. When sub have been given permission to play with myself sub shall do so in the following manner: working my cock almost to an orgasm and then stopping for a few minutes, then working it again to almost at orgasm and then stopping for a few minutes, and then finally working it again to a full orgasm. Then and only then shall sub enjoy an orgasm on my own. Should sub cum before the third tier – sub will tell my Miss so sub may be punished. sub will play with myself in that manner even in Her presence.


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