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A naughty boy

Over the weekend I’d agreed to do several chores which ultimately I forgot about completely, yesterday I messaged Miss to request lock up and plugging if it was her wish (I have a bad history of tum issues so plugging isn’t something Miss forces upon me). She accepted this request with a caveat that I would also be receiving 20 punishment spanks due to me having not done the tasks. Then I would be plugged & caged (this happened before the spanking) which I was grateful for as the spanks did definitely have the extra sting of a punishment spanking.


Once this was all done I proceeded to carry out several of the tasks (annoyingly the hoover got clogged during so took longer than I’d initially planned, pesky hoovers). But Miss was happy with me having got on to do them hastily in response. I think she was happy that there was no complaint about any of her plan at all I just took it as she told me.


This evening, still caged I shall be presenting Miss once again with lube and a plug (she allows me to choose) as well as having some play time a little later all focused on her.


:happy sub:


As always please feel free to message or comment.


A frustrating evening

Yesterday evening after work, having decided earlier in the day that She would like another fucking with the strapon, and that I would be allowed a blowjob as a reward if I was able to not spurt during fucking her with the strapon. We warmed up with me licking and fingering Miss as well as her using the wand on her clit. I’d already caged Miss’ cock and put on the strapon harness, with the big thick 8″ cock. After she felt ready Miss told me to fuck her, despite being caged I still had a very messy ruined orgasm.

Now came the problem, not at all of any action of Miss. I’d been really looking forward to being in Miss mouth, to say she’s talented would be an understatement. I’ve never cum in her mouth even during the time whilst we were relatively vanilla (due to her personal dislike of cum due to previous relationships), but she is more than capable of getting me insanely worked up and close. So you can imagine how I felt about myself, I’d just managed to blow an amazing opportunity to have a lot pleasure all due to being incapable of stopping myself spurting. Miss wasn’t disappointed, or let down etc. but it put me in a very off mood for the rest of the evening. At myself but I can understand it wasn’t fun to be around me in that mood. I loved how much Miss enjoyed me fucking her, and the resulting orgasms. I really do, I just really need to work on being able to get over my own failure to control myself. For a long time it’s been something I’ve despised about myself (hated is far too mild a word for it). I don’t lack in size, I’m above average and I know what to do with it but I’m incapable of controlling when I spurt, whether it’s to full orgasm or ruined. It’s beyond a joke how quickly I need to stop in a stop start technique, I’ve tried cialis and over the counter sex shop pills, I’ve tried prescribed medical numbing cream.

Miss is going to assist me in edging sessions (blog post to follow after today’s experience). Anyway that’s a enough for now I think, if anyone wants to ask anything or has any suggestions please comment or contact me.


Punishment Ideas

2nd of the lists, again forgive grammar please.

  • Miss ties a rope round subs balls and i must kneel near by or follow her. Tugs as she pleases
  • Spank or whip him. (wooden spoon, hair brush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, riding crop, switch, cat-o-nine tails…)
  • Tie sub in an uncomfortable position.
  • Tie sub ankles together and attach his balls to them.
  • Hog tied. (wrists and ankles tied together)
  • Hanging from the ceiling by subs wrists.
  • In a chair with subs knees pulled up to his shoulders – good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable.
  • Tie up subs balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothes line, or boot lace. Use a long piece and wrap the base and balls repeatedly. Do each ball separately. Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs.
  • Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to subs nipples, balls, cock or wherever.
  • Enema.
  • Double up on subs domestic chores, make them more difficult: tie his hands; make him use a toothbrush to clean the toilet, tie his ankles with a short chain and make him wear extra high heels.
  • Deny sub orgasms for a long period of time.
  • Put Ben-gay or icy-hot on subs penis and nipples.
  • Drip candle wax on sub, chest, balls, cock, ass.
  • If you have a remote vibrator or plug, coat that with Icy Hot and stick that in subs ass, use the wireless remote to turn it on and off. Put him in a tight thong under his clothes and go with him to dinner and then to cinema.
  • Have sub wear a chastity device and go to his local gym for training and have him take a shower afterwards. Make sure other people are in shower.
  • Sub must sit down to pee at all toilets. No more splashing! You will post a sign above the toilets in our house that reads: “Males are expected to sit down to keep from splashing on the seat.”
  • Sub will be smooth and hair free below the neck.
  • Sub will submit to spankings and other punishments whenever Miss says you have earned them.
  • Do not wear underwear and socks
  • Freeze a lot of your cum before chastity. Eat daily during sentence
  • Wear butt plug for an entire day
  • Increase butt plug size your ass can handle by 2 sizes
  • Go to a gym with communal showers and take a shower with chastity cage on when other men are present
  • Take 20 naked pictures wearing the chastity cage in different exposing positions and send it to Miss
  • Take a picture kneeling and naked wearing the chastity cage in a locker room/changing room in a gym
  • Sub is not entitled to have your neutered status kept secret. If she wants to show off your condition, she can. Her friends will probably find it amusing too.
  • Miss reserve the right to tell your close friends about your arrangement and his device.
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